Should I Stay Or Should I Go All About Soul

Relationship Friendship Compatability Love Advice Information.


Home      
How compatible are you and the person you are with'

What You Absolutely Must Know About the One You Are With!
How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.

50 secrets of blissful relationships - Power of astrology - The anatomy of an affair - Unhappy relationships - Dating information


Share |


You are free to use content from this page in your blog or website, in return for a link back to this page from that blog or website.



Should I Stay Or Should I Go'


It's one of the ways you can spot a woman in an abusive relationship. They ask themselves the question, time and time again, obsessively.

Actually, it's not the question that obsesses them so much as the answer. The hope is that if they ask themselves the question often enough, the answer will become the one they want. The desired answer is, of course,yes. Yes, they should stay because it will work out the way they'd like it to.

Of course, there are good reasons for wanting the relationship to metamorphose into the Happily-Ever-After kind. Ironically, abused women are driven by their very desperation to invest far more in their relationship than their emotionally fulfilled sisters do. They do so, not least, because of their spiralling isolation and self-doubt.

So a massive, draining conflict between emotion and reason ensues. Of course emotion wins the day for the longest time. 'The heart has its reasons that reason knows nothing of', Pascal observed back in the seventeenth century.

It's a great quote. It's even made it onto a T-shirt. (My daughter wore one such through the autumn.)

(C) Annie Kaszina 2005

In fact, how many of us have 'been there, done that and bought the T-shirt', metaphorically speaking, at least? And how many of us have muted the voice of reason by our persistent denial of it, for sentimental 'reasons''

Nobody can tell another person whether they should stay or go ' although they may be sorely tempted. (The exquisite relief of telling a loved one that their partner is a cold-blooded reptile best returned to his dank swamp, can be a tough one to resist.)

Equally, when the boot's on the other foot, it's not something you want to hear. The only perspective on the problem that counts is your own.

If you feel ready to explore the same problem from a new ' broader ' perspective, it may be time to start asking yourself different questions. These are some of the questions you can ask yourself:

Over time has my relationship improved, deteriorated or stayed the same'

If it has consistently deteriorated, what grounds do I have for hoping for radical improvement'

Is my partner prepared to make a medium to long-term commitment to improving the relationship'

How am I validated and honoured in this relationship'

What would you choose if you really believed you did not have to settle for second best'

Your answers should be self-explanatory. If you are looking for someone who will keep you on track and hold a vision for you while you learn to let your reason provide you with strength and direction, you may be ready to be coached.

Annie Kaszina

Joyful Coaching

An NLP Practitioner and Women's Empowerment Coach, Annie specialises in helping women heal relationship pain and attract the relationships they want. Email:annie@joyfulcoaching.com Websites: http://www.joyfulcoaching.com, http://www.anniekaszina.com To order Annie's eBook 'The Woman You Want To Be': http://www.joyfulcoaching.com


Cat 267


Fight Fat: A Total Lifestyle Program for Men to Stay Slim and Healthy by...
ebay image$2.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 0:02:59 PST
Buy It Now for only: $4.99
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

NEW Should I Stay or Should I Go? - Bancroft, Lundy/ Pa
ebay image$9.74
End Date: Wednesday Feb-29-2012 5:35:44 PST
Buy It Now for only: $9.74
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Stay Fit & Healthy Until You're Dead by Dave Barry (2000, Paperback)
ebay image$3.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 0:03:18 PST
Buy It Now for only: $4.99
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Get Fit, Stay Well Brief Edition
ebay image$17.69
End Date: Thursday Mar-1-2012 11:28:34 PST
Buy It Now for only: $17.69
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Rich Dad's Retire Young Retire Rich: How to Get Rich Quickly and Stay Rich...
ebay image$3.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 3:31:45 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

How to Stay Married and Love Every Minute of It - Jack Exum (1988)
ebay image$3.49 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 4:14:14 PST
Buy It Now for only: $4.49
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Viking Tactics VTAC Stay In the Fight Kyle Lamb BOOK
ebay image$46.49
End Date: Sunday Mar-4-2012 20:26:42 PST
Buy It Now for only: $46.49
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Dian Dincin Buchman's Herbal Medicine: The Natural Way to Get Well and Stay...
ebay image$4.75 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 7:14:29 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

Mommy Wars: Stay-at-Home And Career Moms Face Off on Their Choices, Their Liv...
ebay image$2.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 7:39:28 PST
Buy It Now for only: $2.98
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Home to Stay (Love Inspired Larger Print) , Annie Jones
ebay image$1.50
End Date: Friday Feb-17-2012 13:25:11 PST
Buy It Now for only: $1.50
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Stay Fit & Healthy Until You're Dead by Dave Barry (2000, Paperback)
ebay image$0.75 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 8:59:31 PST
Buy It Now for only: $1.50
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Suzanne Somers Fast and Easy Stay Skinny Quick Simple Meals 100 Diet Recipes
ebay image$0.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 9:11:12 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

If I Stay by Gayle Forman and GAYLE FORMAN (2009, Hardcover)
ebay image$13.32
End Date: Friday Mar-2-2012 20:31:55 PST
Buy It Now for only: $13.32
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Get Fit, Stay Well! Hopson, Donatelle and Littrell (Instructor's Review Copy)
ebay image$30.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 16:29:19 PST
Buy It Now for only: $40.00
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

How to Stay Alive in the Woods: A Complete Guide to Food, Shelter, and...
ebay image$7.50 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 17:08:25 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

Bradford Angier - How To Stay Alive In The Woods (2010)
ebay image$4.28
End Date: Monday Feb-13-2012 2:47:08 PST
Buy It Now for only: $4.28
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Stay Here With Me by Robert Olmstead (1996, Hardcover)
ebay image$0.59 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 17:31:26 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

Quit and Stay Quit: A Personal Program to Stop Smoking by Terry A. Rustin...
ebay image$5.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 17:45:01 PST
Buy It Now for only: $10.00
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

NEW Stay Awake - Chaon, Dan 9780345530370
ebay image$15.22
End Date: Thursday Mar-8-2012 10:12:37 PST
Buy It Now for only: $15.22
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Get Fit, Stay Fit by William E. Prentice (2003, Paperback, Subsequent Edition)
ebay image$8.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 18:41:41 PST
Buy It Now for only: $15.00
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Better Homes and Gardens Eat & Stay Slim (1990, Hardcover, Subsequent Edition)
ebay image$1.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 22:15:42 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

Men STAY AWAY FROM NYMPHO HOUSE Bob Stanley FOREIGN LEGION Color Illustrations
ebay image$19.99
End Date: Monday Mar-5-2012 18:35:53 PST
Buy It Now for only: $19.99
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Stay Tuned: Television's Unforgettable Moments by Joe Garner and LC...
ebay image$10.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 6:09:29 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

WHY YOU CAN'T STAY SILENT - A BIBLICAL MANDATE TO SHAPE OUR CULTURE -Tom Minnery
ebay image$3.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 6:50:13 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

NEW Strong Women Stay Young - Nelson, Miriam E./ Wernic
ebay image$5.99
End Date: Tuesday Feb-28-2012 6:57:14 PST
Buy It Now for only: $5.99
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

STAY TUNED: Television's Unforgettable Moments by Joe Garner $50 Book & DVD
ebay image$5.99 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 8:27:42 PST
Buy It Now for only: $7.99
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Nothing to Do but Stay by Carrie Young (1991, Paperback)
ebay image$8.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 9:17:45 PST
Buy It Now for only: $11.00
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Good Dog. Stay. Anna Quindlen
ebay image$3.49
End Date: Friday Feb-10-2012 10:12:42 PST
Buy It Now for only: $3.49
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-By-Step Guide to Helping You...
ebay image$6.00 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 14:05:14 PST
Buy It Now for only: $6.60
Buy It Now | Bid now | Add to watch list

Better Homes and Gardens Eat & Stay Slim (1990, Hard...
ebay image$0.47 (0 Bids)
End Date: Saturday Feb-11-2012 15:50:01 PST
Bid now | Add to watch list

Google+ For Dummies NEW by Jesse Stay
ebay image$9.25
End Date: Friday Feb-24-2012 13:22:32 PST
Buy It Now for only: $9.25
Buy It Now | Add to watch list

Home Business Plan

Peel Away Ads Marketing And Advertising without Pop-Ups, Fly-Ins or Pop-Unders
home | Relationships site map | custom google search | Relationships articles | Privacy policy
Copyright © 2009 www.dovada.net.au