Relationship Spring Cleaning By Susan Sheppard
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Relationship Spring Cleaning by Susan Sheppard
History doesn't belong in a relationship that is present Note: When you are done with this exercise, if you don't feel like you just met and fell in love, you are not done and you would benefit from more of the same. Once you have completed your serious spring cleaning, it is then important to maintain this level of communication. You can accomplish this by daily, weekly or whenever necessary withhold sessions, shorter but similar to the above. If you know that your partner loves and respects you and considers your relationship a sacred trust, you can willingly sustain such vulnerability. As you practice this level of trust with each other, it becomes easier to notice when something occurs that violates your bond. The best practice is to "effectively deal with" issues as they happen. Sound idealistic? I don't think so. Once you get in the habit of having clean relationships with everyone, you won't be able to tolerate hidden agendas, suppressed feelings or anything generating resistance, resentment or revenge. You won't let missed appointments or oversights or hurt feelings dirty up your association with anyone. Accountability is the essence of communication. Be 100% responsible for your own communication and 100% responsible for receiving other's communication. That way, if everyone takes more than their share of the accountability, our world will be free of misunderstandings. Now perhaps that is somewhat idealistic, but imagine how great it would be to live in a world where the inhabitants honored that principle.. "I help people who want sacred intimacy in a hot relationship, get what they want from each other so that they can experience more fun, more sex and less bickering!" Susan Sheppard Getting What You Want Official Words from Getting What You Want If you would like to use the article written by Susan in this edition of Getting What You Want, permission is granted as long as the copy remains unchanged and the resource information is included at the bottom of the article: Relationship coaching is life coaching. Life becomes extraordinary when we discover that being absolutely committed to taking care of ourselves, leads to abundance in every aspect of our lives. Enroll in an e-course www.RomanceReentry.com Request a consultation www.gettingwhatyouwant.com e-mail me at Susan@gettingwhatyouwant.com Cat 267 |
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