Before Falling Truly And Madly In Love Ask Each Other
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Before Falling Truly and Madly in Love Ask Each Other 10 Pertinent Questions
Falling in love'aaahh what a wonderful experience the first flushes of love are. The heart starts pounding, our temperature rises, and the butterflies begin fluttering whenever the girl/boy of our dreams enters the room. The world looks so'well'rosy. Not only that, life suddenly becomes much more exciting. From my own experiences the heady excitement of first love really did my head in ' for some reason commonsense flew out the window'well in the short term anyway. I started accepting things that I normally wouldn't, pulled away from my old friends, and started to lose a part of myself to accommodate the other person. Cat 267 |
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